You don't want to have regrets when you are nearing the end of your life. There is no reason why you can't work on your dreams now. We all make excuses when we are afraid to try something new, but we need to come to the realization that we are the only ones stopping ourselves from achieving those dreams.
The following is a piece from http://www.ronedmondson.com/2015/04/7-reasons-you-may-not-be-achieving-your-dreams.html. Ron Edmonson has several posts with help and advice to achieving your dreams.
The fact is that more people will look back on their life and wish they had done more with their life than they did.
I heard someone once say something like, “If you’re not careful,
your “hope to do’s” will become your “wish I had’s.” I have many of those areas
in my life. I want the next phase of my life to be different.
Here are
seven reasons you may not be achieving your dreams:
You have no dreams—You may have
some, but you’ve never recorded them. You never set some tangible goals that
get you closer to your dreams. Only then can you analyze them and organize them
into reachable and attainable dreams.
You have no plan—A dream without a
plan is just a dream. A dream with a plan is an avenue to success. You can’t
“work the plan” if you never wrote one.
You need accountability—We were
designed for relationships. Sometimes knowing someone is going to hold you
accountable is enough incentive to follow through. Give a few people the
freedom to challenge you to work the plan.
You are afraid to share the load—If you are trying alone for fear of sharing your dream, you’ll
also have no one with whom you can really share the victory. Sharing the load
builds synergy, makes a stronger effort and keeps your ego from sidelining your
progress.
You’ve given up—You may have had a
setback and now you’re afraid to try again. Successful dreamers are willing to
get up after a fall, knowing they will be stronger and better equipped the next
time.
You aren’t willing to take a risk—Fear can sometimes be a powerful motivator, but most of the
time it’s one of our biggest stumbling blocks. Some of the best moments of your
life are hidden in your fears. Risk-taking and dreaming go
hand-in-hand. If the dream requires no risk, it isn’t much of a dream.
You never got started—Every road to
success begins with one step. If you don’t start, you’ll certainly never
finish. What step do you need to take?
Are any of these your reason for not achieving your dreams? What
would you add to my list?
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